Am I the jerk for yelling my brother for trashing my room after I was gone or hours and getting kick out of college?

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Let start this off from the beginning. My dad is been a sore topic for my brother. My dad left us at the young age 12 and 11 years old. Mine brother never forgave him for that. Me however I have to much to worry about and to carry on my back so i have forgiven Me and my brother are totally opisite (I have two internships and take care of his and mine jobs. Plus school is always on my back.but my on the other hand has not responsible. Such as instead of doing homework work for his college he goes to party or start drinking or getting high with his friend. While I take care of his dog and his chores and my mom him get by with it.) When I started forgiveing him my brother started getting angry at and started blaming me for all his Misfutune such him braking his phone when he get mad. But recently he had gotten more fits of anger. him going to my room and breaking my stuff. Recently my dad brought a Nintendo Switch. I been wanting since came out. I went out with my friends for a escape room and when I found my room completely trash including my led string light and my canvas poster ripped down from my walls. Also my computer , tablet and my brand new Nintendo Switch broken. At point my anger had hit it limits .i Marched down the hallway and told him ‘what’s his problem? ‘. He told ‘why don’t get daddy to buy you new stuff like always. At that point mom heard us down the hall.. Him being him he said’ I’m blaming for messing up my room.’ . I aurged with my mom to the I was calling my friend for them to tell her where I was. At I was pretty mad at this point. I told him he going to pay for my stuff that or he is going to get him. I had evidence for how he yells and bang on walls. And how call me names I can’t call on here. And also him partying and high and drinking. Show to dean . And he got him kick out. Him being him he went and told my mom. And I told he get his anger under control or I going move? . I moved out the next day. I went to my friend houses that day and I bumbared that day with of messages from my mother side . Calling me a jerk? To the point that my friend had take my phone from me for a day refresh because I had metal break down. So I’m wondering. “Am I the jerk? “

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